Dating Tips: How to Write to Her?

Writing is the most important aspect of online dating. Even some date sites like loveme.com have Letter Writing Tips provided in their site. A list of tips that will allow their members success in their hunt for love. So, what's the right way to write?

When it comes to online dating, getting the attention of a potential partner is crucial. The questions: how do I begin the letter? What should I write in the letter? What are the things I can ask? And how much should I tell her? Begin to occupy our minds. But worry not, here are some tips on how you should go on about your letter writing:

• Read her bio. Before you start any writing, read her profile or bio first. Base your questions around what they provided. It'll help the flow of conversation when the correspondence starts. It will also give you a good impression and let them understand just how interested you are in getting to know them.

• What not to ask her. Stick to wholesome questions. Don't ask her questions that may get her uncomfortable. This is really a no-brainer. Just remember, most women who are in online dating sites are looking for serious relationships. But for the sake of it all here are some samples you should never ask: do not ask questions about any sensual or sexual preferences. Do not ask about nudes. (It’s fine to ask for pictures but never ask for something like nudes. It’s not cool.) Do not ask very personal questions like “how many lovers have you had?”, “how many kids you want to have?” and “how much is your annual income?”, such questions can be asked when you have established a good relationship with her.

• A small intro of yourself. It is important that you only provide details of yourself that a stranger should know. Remember that your privacy and security is still the most important. It is important that you also introduce yourself in your letter. But remember, you don't have to write your full name, your first name or nickname is more than enough. Mention some general details of yourself. Example: the nature of your job, your interests and hobbies. You can even point out the things you both have in common based on what you've seen from her bio.

• Send a photo. It is only fair that you send the lady you're interested in your photo. It will allow them to have better feel on whom they are corresponding with. You can also impress and keep her interested by sending him photos of yourself. Of course, wholesome friendly images. Send her images of you doing the hobbies you like to do or you eating your favorite dishes.

• Endnote. Your endnote should be simple and friendly. Just a simple statement of saying: "Have a great day and looking forward to getting to know you better." is a great way to end your letter. You don't want to come off forceful in terms of getting a response.

Writing a letter can sometimes be intimidating, especially when it's to someone we are interested in. Just keep these tips in mind and you should be fine. Write your way into someone’s heart and you’ll definitely find a keeper.