Things That DESTROY ANY Relationship QUICKLY

We live in a time where change seems to be relentless.

People never stop being fascinated by new inventions, whether it's the latest gadget or an online app. It's no wonder that in just 20 years, we've come a long way.

And, of all the things the internet has created, online dating seems to have caught the interest of a lot of hopeful singles.

The ease of use that dating sites provide greatly improves one's dating experience. These websites help you narrow down your options based on your preferences — they essentially do the legwork for you.

But just as quickly as these relationships blossom, there still lies a possibility that it won’t end well.

A casual attitude toward a relationship may indicate that you aren't as committed as you think.

But being too overzealous can drive them off too.

When you express or show your affection flamboyantly, it puts a lot of pressure on your partner to reciprocate in the same way, which they might not be able to do

Not everyone is capable of such dedication in the early stages of a relationship.

The world in which we now live is ever-changing and fast-paced. Taking it slowly isn't an option and no one has the time to.

Relationships aren’t as lasting as they used to. The word "love" has been so overused that it has lost its weight and sense.

When we are served wine, the waiter pours it specifically on a wine glass according to its standard serving size.

But those who know less pour as much as their glass can carry.

The wine you pour is the amount of love you give, while the glass reflects your relationship. Having too much can lead you to make hasty and unwise decisions. And if you do drop your glass in your drunken stupor, it will break into bits.

You can’t barge into a room and make demands on how you want things to run.

Here's some real relationship advice: if you want your love to last a lifetime, you must first realize what will have a big impact on your relationship.

Incompatibility

You'll know how blind a person's judgment can be if you've watched other people rush into relationships.

When you're in love, you forget a person's shortcomings — you're too enamored with the sensation of new love to notice.

The honeymoon period comes to an end eventually.

Spending time with your partner will bring out some of his or her negative characteristics. It is also possible to work things out if you both acknowledge your flaws.

We all have different views on life; the question is whether or not your partner is willing to see it from your point of view.

Lack of Communication

Lack of communication is what ruins most relationships.

We, like everyone else in the room, want to avoid getting into a fight with our significant other. However, a petty quarrel now and then can be beneficial.

You both want to sort things out underneath it all. The more you neglect these issues, the more likely you are to run into them in the long term.

It's important to have these issues resolved as soon as possible, lest they become too complicated.

Ego

We can't help but see our own suffering at times, even when it comes to our significant other.

It's always our pride and ego that takes us over. As a result, this can jeopardize our relationship.

People become so engrossed in their feelings that they lose sight of the damage they are causing to their partner. These negative emotions can manifest towards them and cause even bigger chaos.

Nobody deserves to be the only one making an attempt to make amends in a relationship. Someone will undoubtedly be drained if you spend your life trying to mend a crack in the wall with duct tape.

Unrealistic Expectations

Unhealthy relationships are glorified in today's pop culture, and unrealistic relationship expectations are seen as a norm. This enables the viewers to project their expectations into their partners.

These expectations are often so great that they are dissatisfied once the relationship has settled.

We fall in love with the thought of falling in love rather than the individual. The reason why we feel disappointed is that our partner falls short of our ideals.

Nobody was created solely to fulfill the needs of others.

You put your partner in an uncomfortable position when you dictate how you want them to be.

The Highs and Lows of Love

Break-ups are a part of a relationship that we have to eventually accept.

We are the key characters in this game that we call life. We have a few supporting characters here and there, and they come and go.

This is completely understandable.

n the same way, as they are to us, we are their supporting characters. They may have discovered greater options for them, and that course may have led them in the opposite direction. But that doesn't mean our journey has come to an end.

We, too, have something in store for us, just like they do.

We encountered the one that was meant for us after a few heartbreaks. The issue is that we don't really recognize it. We approach the relationship with a cold heart, oblivious to the fact that we're losing the one thing we've yearned for.

The tests we face are challenges that weigh up the heart and drain the soul. It can be hard to find tranquility.

But bear in mind that we are the masters of our destiny.

The sea may throw us off like a raging tidal wave, but you are not alone.

It is inevitable that we lose our grip sometimes and drift away, but that will never be a valid reason to treat a partner unfairly.

Mistakes are natural, we are human after all. But that's not to say they have no repercussions. Do your very best to promote a healthy partnership with your beloved.